Mindfulness

Bring yourself more fully into the present and respond to the world as it really is, not to your fears and assumptions about it.

What is Mindfulness?

Imagine buying a health-food snack. Later you sit in front of the TV and eat it. Afterwards you realise that you barely tasted the snack because your attention was on the TV. You check the packet and see that the supposedly healthy snack was actually full of sugar and additives.

Like the snack, we often make choices based on assumptions – it looks healthy on the surface so it’s healthy inside. We eat, work, talk, all the day to day activities – while never fully experiencing them.

Without real focus we make judgments and decisions based on mistaken assumptions, we eat health foods that are not healthy, end up in jobs we don’t enjoy, or in relationship with people we don’t truly connect with.

Mindfulness is about bringing us more fully into the present, experiencing things more deeply and directly. This leads to a better understanding of ourselves and our lives, the ability to make more authentic choices, and act in ways that draw us closer to the life we truly wish to lead.

Modern culture is increasingly fast-paced and superficial. Most films are just a series of explosions or set-pieces, we react to headlines, everything is TL/DR, our jobs are about producing more, faster, for less, with no art or substance, we click from post to comment to video to chat, barely registering what we read or see.

It’s impossible to make a well-informed choice in this information blizzard, so we end up with unsatisfying results wondering how we got there. Mindfulness and a rest from the frantic pace of life is essential in maintaining balance, a quiet mind and real emotional well-being.

What happens in a session?

Sessions will vary depending upon why you’re attending. Some people come to deal with a specific problem, others to improve their general wellbeing.

A common practice is meditation. This is not about ’emptying the mind’ as commonly thought, but more about ‘seeing what is in your mind’ – letting unconscious thoughts come to your attention. It may involve sitting quietly, breathing in a specific pattern, or repeating phrases – whichever works best for you.

It is easy to start ‘living in your head’. Mindfulness reminds us that life is a ‘full-bodied’ experience.
Other mindful practices can be eating, walking, listening – almost any activity can be an opportunity for mindfulness. The key is in fully experiencing what you do, not allowing your attention to wander.

I will help you develop mindful practice that you can then continue at home. This will involve improving your ability to maintain focus, discussing the thoughts that arise through practice and understanding how these thoughts are shaping your actions and your life.

CBT

Hypnotherapy is an excellent tool for…

  • Giving up smoking, alcohol or drugs
  • Help losing weight
  • Overcoming fears
  • Reducing anxiety
  • Anger management
  • Exam or work stress
  • Low self-esteem and confidence issues
  • Trouble sleeping

Take back control

While they can feel overwhelming, many problems we face are sustained or created by our bad habits of thought and action. Extraordinary change can be achieved by breaking these habits and replacing them with positive traits.

Book an introductory appointment to see if my approach is right for you.

All you need to bring to our sessions is a determination to do the work of healing.